Why is it that when I'm stressed, I make lists? Sometimes they're good lists: things that make me happy, movies I want to see, books I liked; and sometimes they're bad lists: things other people do that irritate me, things I haven't done for a while, reasons I'm angry/stressed, tomorrow's hit list. Right now I'm in the process of making about 7 lists, and I think one of them is a good one.
Why is it that when you ask a guy to do something, it takes him forever to pick up on it?? Why is it that when I get stressed, I turn into a card-carrying, broom riding, cauldron stirring witch? Why don't I want to do anything anymore? I don't even want to look for a job, or start school... and sometimes I'm not sure I want to get married. Why? I don't understand it.
Oh, and another thing: why does everyone seem to think that talking about it makes the stress go away? IT'S STILL THERE!!! Why does counseling have such a negative connotation? It's actually really good for you if you do it right... I would know.. I did it wrong.
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Uh...it's not the talking that helps, it's the doing what you've realized or decided to do DURING the talking...you know the definition of insanity...start with making a list of things you can do to make yourself happy since you've realized that others can't (a huge step in the right direction!!)
ReplyDeleteSmooches, oh great listmaker!